The average cut takes about 2weeks to fully heal. The avaerage surgery wound takes about 6-8 weeks to heal. Why is there no time frame for your feelings to heal?
I’ve always been a believer of, recognizing your emotions helps you solve life. Of course there are events that occur in your life that can change who you are and how you react to things. While some may be able to hold and “control” their emotions others express and have “no control” of their emotions. What does controlling your emotions really mean? Is surpessing how you feel more healthy then expressing how you feel? Is ignoring what you feel healthier than recognizing how you feel?
Yes, we should all be able to communicate with inside voices. Yes, we should be comfortable enough and secure enough to scream as well. Although there is a time and place for everything, I do not believe the quite anger is better than the loud one. I do not believe the loud sadness is sadder then the quite sadness. And I definitely don’t believe the quite love is less than the loud love. They are all the same; anger is anger, sadness is sadness and love is love. We all express ourselves differently, which makes us who we are.
I find that when people express themselves ( quiet or loud) others quickly feel offended, judged, attacked, uncomfortable and even guilty. When people aren’t in tap with their own feeling, they are quick to dismiss your feelings because it’s uncomfortable for them. Emotions are probably harder to Face and deal with than a freakin S.A.T🤓😒. They require you to become vulnerable, a vulnerablity is crazy and weak to some. But to get to strength you must pass/fight THROUGH vulnerability. Being vulnerable is not weak, it’s a stage of reconstruction. And how you deal with that reconstruction in your own home is up to you. But you must get through it, learn from it and heal.
There is no certain time to heal your heart from pain, but you must allow your heart to heal. Clearly it’s possible, the rest of your body is healing just fine😉.
Live Your Life😘 MJAIE 👑